Part of life involves being in situations that make you uncomfortable. How well you respond to this stress and bounce back is your resilience. Resilience is continuously changing. This is a positive aspect of resilience, as you can strengthen this in a conscious way. Becoming more resilient can increase mental and physical health, help maintain balance in your life.
- Resiliency does not mean that you do not react to trauma in your life. It is normal to feel negative emotions.
- Possessing resilience does not make your life easier in a direct way, but it helps you realize that not everything will happen according to your plan.
- Resiliency allows you to experience hard times and recover.
- Resiliency does not have to be an individual journey. You can use your support network and connections to aid you in your path to a new normal.
How to Strengthen your Resilience
- Learn the importance of saying no. If a task is asking too much of you, talk to your supervisor and let them know. They will help in resolving the issue in the least stressful way.
- Develop hobbies and make time for them. Having a balance between work and your personal life will increase happiness as well.
- Take care of your body. Getting a good night’s sleep, eating healthy, and exercising will increase your ability to handle and cope with stress that enters your life.
- Build your self-esteem by praising yourself for accomplishing your goals, and not dwelling on goals that you did not reach.
- Learn to say no.
- Put your mental and physical health first.
- Take time to celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small.
- Use your support system and take advantage of the EAP services included in your benefits.
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